In my mind, we can not be in a relationship with anyone for so long without it changing some kind of aspect or fading away all together. Yes yes, I am also contradicting my ultimate beliefs, but when I think about it, it makes sense this way.
No matter how long we have been friends with a person, your friendship changes, either for the better for the worse. You know why? because people change. They may become a better person, or an even worse person. Everyday as we go through life, its as if there are so many little things that affects us as we walk by and manage to alter our lives.
I don't think I'm scared of change.. I'm just scared of what kind. As a person who is very interested in new things, change is pretty much the only thing that keeps all of our lives so interesting and worthwhile.
I have changed. All of my friends have changed. My mindsets and perspectives have certainly changed a bit, although I feel as if I've always been like this but I just recently began to be open about my realizations. No one can stay the same.
As a soul surviver, we just have to learn to deal with change. The way I see it, you shouldn't become too dependent on anything in your life unless it is someone you have commitment too, like a wedding or something of that sort. Being too fixiated on something, will just get you all sad and worn down when that thing changes, even if it's for the better.
I'm ready to put on my shoes and walk out the door,
read for whatever experiences life would present to me.


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